No no, it showed up! Anon-san, it's because love is really really scary, right? Falling in love, even being mutually in love with someone, it's scary! I think almost anyone who has ever been really in love with someone has felt the same way that you do.
But even though it’s scary, instead of thinking about how it can go wrong you should focus on thinking about everything that is right. The more positively you think the happier you’ll feel, and if you’re worrying about what could happen it can start affecting you and affecting your relationship. It’s not an ‘enjoy it while it lasts’ mentality, but an ‘I’m determined to make this last!’ mentality. Aah, does that make sense?
And in the case that it doesn’t work out… I don’t know if you’ll believe me or not, but no matter what happens you’ll be okay! Because humans are really tough! We always stand back up after we fall, don’t we? It'll hurt, and it might take a long time, but one day your heart will be ready again. And until then it can still be happy and feel love, because you'll have your friends and family with you throughout it all.
... I'm sorry for talking so much, especially about stuff you've probably already heard! （/｡＼) I really hope it works out for you, anon-san. I'm rooting for you!
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Date: 2012-04-25 05:39 pm (UTC)But even though it’s scary, instead of thinking about how it can go wrong you should focus on thinking about everything that is right. The more positively you think the happier you’ll feel, and if you’re worrying about what could happen it can start affecting you and affecting your relationship. It’s not an ‘enjoy it while it lasts’ mentality, but an ‘I’m determined to make this last!’ mentality. Aah, does that make sense?
And in the case that it doesn’t work out… I don’t know if you’ll believe me or not, but no matter what happens you’ll be okay! Because humans are really tough! We always stand back up after we fall, don’t we? It'll hurt, and it might take a long time, but one day your heart will be ready again. And until then it can still be happy and feel love, because you'll have your friends and family with you throughout it all.
... I'm sorry for talking so much, especially about stuff you've probably already heard! （/｡＼) I really hope it works out for you, anon-san. I'm rooting for you!